January 2006
President Bush's recent announcement
of the new "Anal Only" policy [as some jokesters are calling
it] for sex education came as a pleasant surprise to those on both sides
of an always contentious issue. Officially titled "Anal or Abstinence
Only," this revision to the administration's controversial "Abstinence
Only" stance -- an idea seen by many as unrealistic in light of
youthful libidos and human nature -- was greeted as a genuine expression
of compassionate conservatism that should satisfy those on the left
requesting a plan less behaviorally stringent and those on the right
who do not want to make any concessions in the direction of intercourse.
It is not only abstinence,
but anal sex too, that is one hundred percent foolproof in preventing
unwanted pregnancy, the president said this week in his regular radio
address. He added that protection obviously would be required to insure
against disease.
A woman's ability to remain
a virgin -- an issue important to religious authorities and men across
denominations -- seems to be the fulcrum beneath this new argument,
its main selling point to an increasingly church-attending public. The
President added that with use of this method of gratification a woman
can retain the integrity of her hymen, and can still be a virgin for
her husband when it comes time to wed, while still enjoying a healthy
sex life before wedlock.
Such frank talk on sexual
matters is nothing short of revolutionary for a president and more unusual
still emanating from an administration seen as very conservative and
even openly friendly to the religious right. But surprisingly, aside
from some harsh words from predictable sources, the general reaction
has been positive.
The announcement has been
applauded by many leaders within the Catholic Church already. Sex-ed
proponents, feminist groups and those working for women's health and
reproductive rights in impoverished countries so far appear in agreement
that this is a positive move. And groups as disparate as the American
Psychological Association, the American Council of Churches and the
National Rifle Association have made favorable comments.
On the opposing side, some
have questioned whether by starting a public discussion of anal sex
the president may be opening a Pandora's box of sex talk that will include
homosexuality and gay sex and other practices deemed aberrant by many
consumers.
Some are saying the president
should have pointed out that oral sex as well can be listed in the activities
that can in no way cause pregnancy, but it is asking too much to expect
Mr. Bush to list all sexual activities that are outside intercourse.
Only extremists would demand the entire cornucopia of human sexuality
be officially recognized by the government.
We should accept this new
policy wholesale; steps in the direction of progress are never completely
easy, and the more radical the idea the more flaws it likely has --
whatever minor problems this new idea may have can be tweaked between
now and implementation. It is best we are thankful for what is a gesture
of concession by the president, and groups who think this policy does
not go far enough should realize how difficult the decision to bring
this forward must have been especially in light of Bush's constituency.