Chapter 1. Initial Intercourse

Of course, almost every man who has had the experience of marrying a woman possessing a hymen manages to survive the ordeal somehow, just as a man who has never delivered an extemporaneous address finally stumbles through an unorganized presentation.

 

Chapter 12. Oral Connection

The reasons for prejudice [against "oral connection"] are obvious. Firstly, the tendency is unconsciously associated with homosexualism, the thought of which is disagreeable to normal people.

Secondly, the genital area of our bodies has always been regarded as of doubtful cleanliness. Again, this concept can be faulty if both male and female observe proper hygienic habits.

Cleanliness is a vital factor regardless of the type of relationship between sexes. There should be no greater relaxation in its application to one part of the body than to another. If anything, greater caution should be exercised in any area likely to offend. Among the civilized, specific attention is given the genital region.

Common sense suggests that a well-cleansed male organ is free of all odor.

The truth is that the universal kiss is not so wholesome a convention that oral contact with a cleansed genital area need be regarded as a perverted activity. Consequently, where oral connection is concerned, an imaginative rather than actual condition has created the prejudices that exist against it.

Of course, this form of sex play is never engaged in as a day-after-day practice. It severely taxes the nervous system, particularly the male's. The highly passionate woman, however, almost without exception will usually devote some period of foreplay to an oral caressing of the male organ. Generally, mutual activity is reserved for times of superpassion when the emotion of either male or female or both, impels them to find a release requiring the closest and most intimate form of expression.

The bidet, of course, is a highly civilized feature and should be an essential appurtenance in every American household. It encourages daily douching, a practice not engaged in nearly enough by American women, who usually resort to it only following a sexual relationship or the end of a period. This is not sufficiently frequent to eliminate the secretion formed in the vagina and vaginal vault. Douching should be performed regularly as a matter of routine hygiene.

 

Chapter 18. Sexual Miscellany

There is nothing indecent about the nude human body; it is only one's thoughts which make it so. The penis is no less an organ than an arm or a leg, and a woman's breast no more unusual than the buttocks exposed in a brief swimming suit. Toady, a reproduction of "September Morn" arouses hardly a flash of interest. We are accustomed to it.

The artist looks at his nude model with a mind far removed from the pubic region. He sees only those organs which he wishes to paint. The obstetrician probes, and the surgeon removes an ovary, without becoming sexually aroused. Their minds are clean, and all see the human body for what it is -- an assortment of organs. Others look at it and see only indecency. Let them examine their minds.

False modesty touches both sexes, but is largely confined to the female. The assumption of every husband should be that his wife is to some extent a victim of it. He should, therefore, take the initiative, and make a studied effort to insure the fact that his mate enters into intimacy with complete abandon. In fact, the thoughtful husband, whatever his mood, will be alert to anticipate his wife's feelings. Since the average woman is reluctant to make passionate advances, she waits for him to take the initiative; frequently she waits in vain.

The female has very definite duties apart from her obligation to render normal sexual service to her husband. She must remember that, while there are certain regular periods in which intercourse is neither practicable nor convenient, her husband may nevertheless require sexual relief. Should her period run five, six, seven, or eight days, this is a lengthy interval for the male to practice self-control. Of course, he should be able to do it, but there is no reason to force it upon him when the simple expedient of the female hand or oral connection can remove the necessity. Since many men are reluctant to force any type of relationship upon their wives during this period, the woman herself should take the initiative. Furthermore, in all probability this variation will prove enjoyable to him and will be just as satisfying. A thoughtful wife will, independently, look for these opportunities to gratify her husband's sexual needs. It is true that she deserves first consideration, but not the only consideration.

Sex in marriage is not a one-sided matter. If excessive modesty or aloofness tends to make it so, a wife had better adjust her conceptions; otherwise, she may find her husband seeking the society of a more suitable mistress.

The male is usually direct in indicating his feelings. When his hands start moving over the female body a wife instantly recognizes in this a symptom of his mood. Nevertheless, although they also are entitled to similar liberties, and should not hesitate to stimulate the male organ as an expression of their mood, few women will release their inhibitions to this extent.

Many newly wed men, instead of proceeding leisurely, are impatient to run the gamut of sex in the first few relationships. One can well understand the reaction of a woman who, on the second night of intimacy with her husband, finds him experimenting with the rear-entry position, the conception of which may be completely new to her. If she assumes that he is utilizing her as a mechanism to satisfy jaded tastes or as a medium of experiment, she can hardly be blamed, particularly if she is uninformed. Virgins have been known to burst into tears when their husbands first attempted this position, and accused the men of lacking respect for them. Obviously these women are naive.

A woman who insists upon practicing sexual activity exclusively in the dark or beneath the covers is, indeed, overdoing the matter of modesty.

Indulgence conducted in the light has the capacity also to heighten the excitement of the male; it gives him the opportunity of viewing the physical charms of his wife. However, they should be casually observed and not gloated over.

There is an old axiom, the substance of which is that the perfect wife is a lady in the drawing room, a capable cook in the kitchen, and a wanton in bed. There is much truth in this. Many a prostitute can satisfy a man more completely than a virtuous woman; she is a mistress of sexual technique, knows masculine psychology, and has no inhibitions. Having consorted with all types, she understands their sexual natures thoroughly and conducts herself accordingly.

A wife should realize that all normal men are sexually responsive to the exposure of the female body. This is particularly true where strange women are concerned, since the male perpetually seeks variety. It accounts for the popularity of burlesque and girl shows in general, and for exhibitions of the "strip-tease," bubble-dance," and fan-dance character. Few husbands, if any, are totally indifferent to these attractions.

A wife attired in brief lingerie has as much opportunity to arouse interest in an apathetic male as the scantily clad chorines in a present-day musical.

In fact, any indirect exposure which would stimulate a man if observed on another woman has a comparable effect when provided by his wife; perhaps no tin the same degree, but sufficiently extensive to make him desire her. It is up to the wife to sense these opportunities and utilize them subtly. Nudity is not effective when paraded.

The sex life of the average couple is a deadly routine gone through with a monotonous sameness, the same position in the same bed at the same time in the same way. There is no reason why matrimony need interrupt al the pre-marital habits of a wedded couple. An occasional drive to the haunts of yesteryear and a petting party to recapture a measure of the old-time magic should not strike the married reader as a preposterous suggestion. Neither should a weekend spent at a modest farm or an occasional night at a hotel.

 

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